I use Maybelline Dream Matte Mousse in Porcelain - http://www.maybelline.com/products/face-makeup/foundation/dream-matte-mousse.aspx
For lipstick I use a bunch of different kinds, but my favorite by far is Loreal Colour Riche - 805 Golden Splendor. - http://www.lorealparisusa.com/en/products/makeup/lips/lip-color/colour-riche-lipcolour.aspx
That is a good question.
It can be really difficult at times, but also very rewarding!